Denise Brown still vividly recalls the last night she spent with her sister, Nicole Brown Simpson. While celebrating at a restaurant with their family, Nicole suddenly looked out of the window, spotted her ex-husband, former American football star OJ Simpson, driving past, and remarked that he was constantly following her. The very next morning, on June 13, 1994, Denise was at her parents' home in Orange County, California, when the telephone rang shortly after 6 a.m. Her mother answered and let out a guttural, horrific scream. Taking the receiver, Denise spoke to a Los Angeles Police Department detective who delivered the devastating news: 35-year-old Nicole and her friend Ron Goldman had been found stabbed to death outside her home. Denise immediately told the detective that OJ Simpson was responsible, a conviction she felt in her soul as 17 years of memories flashed through her mind.
Though Simpson was acquitted of the double murder in a highly publicized 1995 criminal trial, a 1997 civil trial found him liable for the deaths. He was later imprisoned for nine years following an armed robbery and kidnapping conviction, before being released in 2017 and eventually dying in 2024. In the decades following her sister's tragic death, Denise has dedicated her life to campaigning against domestic violence. Now 69, she is releasing a new book, "For My Sister Nicole: Love Shouldn’t Hurt – What to Know About Domestic Violence," published by Blackstone in the United States. Denise explains that after 32 years of learning about the dynamics of abuse, she felt it was time to share her knowledge to help save lives.
The book serves as both a personal memoir of her relationship with Nicole and a practical guide for those experiencing domestic abuse, as well as their loved ones. It covers identifying warning signs, establishing safety plans for leaving, and navigating child custody. Looking back, Denise admits she initially handled the situation poorly, telling Nicole to simply leave or questioning why she stayed. She now understands that such demands are unsupportive, and she wants to educate others to offer proper support so victims know they are not alone or to blame.
In the immediate aftermath of the murders, Denise publicly doubted that Nicole was a victim of domestic abuse, admitting today that she was entirely uneducated on the subject. At the time, she held the common misconception that domestic violence only affected impoverished families or those without supportive networks. Nicole had grown up in an affluent Orange County coastal city as one of four close-knit sisters, exuding confidence and high spirits. The true extent of the abuse only came to light when the family discovered Nicole's journals after her death, which detailed a repetitive cycle of beatings and intense, controlling behavior.
Denise recalls meeting Simpson after he had been dating Nicole for eight months. Nicole was just 18 and Simpson was around 30, allowing him to easily mold her. Denise remembers an early warning sign during a football game night at Simpson's home, where she heard shouting and found Nicole in tears. Nicole blamed herself for the argument, claiming she had embarrassed him by kissing a mutual male friend on the cheek. On another occasion, during a double date in Los Angeles, Simpson flew into a rage after Denise accused him of taking Nicole for granted. Simpson smashed photos, threw Nicole's clothes down the stairs, and grabbed Nicole by the throat, lifting her off the ground before throwing her out bloodied. He also shoved Denise out of the house. Despite the violence, Nicole returned the next morning, dismissing it as an isolated incident caused by drinking.
Over the years, Nicole and Simpson married and had two children, but the abuse continued. Nicole once asked Denise to photograph her physical bruises, and in 1989, Simpson was sentenced to community service for spousal abuse. Denise repeatedly urged her sister to leave, but she has since learned that leaving an abuser is incredibly dangerous. Batterers frequently threaten to take children away or harm family members, and the period when a victim attempts to leave is when the danger of lethal violence peaks.
Although Nicole finally divorced Simpson in 1992, the stalking persisted. Eight months before her murder, she called the police because Simpson had broken into her home. Just five days before she was killed, Nicole made a desperate call to a domestic violence shelter, a plea Denise urges people to take seriously. Following Nicole's funeral, Simpson went on the run instead of surrendering to police, leading to the famous televised white SUV car chase that Denise and her sister Dominique even tried to pursue in their own vehicle.
The subsequent criminal trial became a massive media spectacle, launching the modern true-crime genre. While Denise testified, she notes that prosecutors were blocked from fully educating the jury on domestic violence. Some jurors later remarked that the proceedings were a murder trial rather than a domestic violence case, to which Denise counters that murder is the ultimate form of domestic violence. Following the 1997 civil verdict, which ordered Simpson to pay $34 million to the victims' families, Denise never saw him again. She ignored his controversial, canceled 2006 book "If I Did It" and continues to avoid documentaries about the case, choosing also to protect the privacy of Nicole's children, Sydney and Justin.
Denise plans to continue her advocacy work indefinitely, highlighting that domestic violence remains a critical issue, with an estimated one in three women in the U.S. experiencing physical or sexual violence or stalking by an intimate partner. She notes that many shelters are currently facing closure due to a lack of government funding. Nicole's death originally helped catalyze the passage of the Violence Against Women Act three months after her murder, and Denise hopes it will continue to receive support. She also noted her horror at recent events, speaking just after U.S. police reopened an investigation into the alleged rape of a woman by seven men at Cornell University in 2024. Ultimately, Denise hopes her sister would be proud of her efforts, believing Nicole would have done the exact same for her.
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